Our thoughts on women-only train carriages

I am not the problem.

My MP Chris Williams hit the news this week when he suggested we look at the merit of women-only carriages in response to the number of reported sexual offences on trains doubling over the last 5 years. The first thing to say is that it doesn’t follow that there are now more sexual offences, an increase in reporting usually means that people feel more confident that they’ll be taken seriously if they come forward to talk about their experiences. So well done to British Transport Police for their campaigns to encourage reporting. Transport companies are often reluctant to admit there is a problem as they believe it will put women off travelling but women tell us companies not addressing it is what puts them off.

So let’s talk about the issue of safety and how we can improve it. I don’t believe asking us to travel in a women-only area is the solution. This approach makes me feel like I’m the problem. So if I weren’t there dressing and acting like I want then none of this would happen? Because, well, boys will be boys? This victim blaming is wrong. As a society we need to address the real problem – men should respect women and not be allowed to believe it’s OK to harass us.

Did you see the recent BBC programme No More Boys And Girls? It wanted to see if we remove all differences in the way boys and girls are treated can we even out gaps in their achievement? Dr Javid Abdelmoneim, who ran the experiment for 6 weeks, says he knows there are basic biological differences between the sexes, but he believes our biology can’t fully explain why men and women’s life chances – from pay, to careers – are still so unequal in the UK. The results found boys treated their sisters better, girls spoke in front of the class for the first time and boys and girls said they thought boys and girls were equal. That’s the sort of society I want to live in.

But since we’re not there yet I think there is a place for women-only spaces and Nottingham Women’s Centre is one of them. A space where women who have been made to feel vulnerable, can feel safe while they find their voice and confidence again or maybe they just want to surround themselves with friendly female faces for a while or learn a new skill. So I’m not saying women-only spaces don’t play a role, services for women run by women are essential but we’re often repairing the damage men have done, lets address that and then perhaps I’ll be out of a job!

Helen Voce, CEO.

Misogyny Hate Crime Workshop at The Nottingham Emmanuel School

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On Monday 17th July, we were invited by Nottingham Citizens to a Hate Crime Action hosted by one of their partner organisations, The Nottingham Emmanuel School. The event was attended by over 80 pupils from Emmanuel, Ellis Guilford, Bluecoat Academy and Farnborough Academy, alongside representatives from both the City and County Councils and Nottinghamshire Police.

With Claire Dixon from our partners Equation, Holly and Andrea presented a workshop to staff, students and visitors: Holly gave a brief introduction to the history of misogyny hate crime in Nottinghamshire, before Claire hosted a fun quiz centred around some eye-opening statistics on children’s experiences of sexual harassment in schools. The workshop included a video of Rosemary, a young woman who very kindly shared her own experiences of reporting a misogyny hate crime incident to police. Andrea gave details about ground breaking work being done at Nottingham Free School to tackle misogynistic behaviour and also explained how to report incidents to Nottinghamshire Police. Finally, everyone completed a pledge card, confirming what they will do in the future to help tackle misogyny hate crime.

We’d like to say a big thank you to all the young people who attended – we were so impressed by you and your wonderful pledges!

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